Parenthood, whether motherhood or fatherhood, is a transformative journey filled with joy, challenges and countless memorable moments. Amidst the joys and challenges, one aspect that holds a surprising importance is the presence of 'mom friends.' Sure, Dads need friends, too, but the 'mom friend' can be vital!
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While they may not always be your best friends, mom friends can play a vital role in your well-being as a parent. They understand the unique struggles you face and can offer friendly support (which increases your sense of overall belonging to the parental community). Mom friends can be a strong presence to help you feel grounded and centered while you explore the many challenges of looking after children.
The saying “it takes a village to raise a child” holds true. But the meaning goes well beyond a child’s development. The parents’ well-being is also part of the equation. Connecting with other parents and building a support network is crucial for sharing tasks, seeking advice, and ensuring your child can find a trusted adult to rely on at any time, even when you are not around.
However, making mom friends in 2023 is not quite the same as it was for the previous generations. Our parents and grandparents had more opportunities to meet and make friends. So how do you find these connections in the 21st century? And more importantly, how do they influence your well-being?
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Education Communities
In today’s diverse world, it is not uncommon for parents to seek further education options that align with their values and beliefs. Communities like daycare and early learning academy centers can bring together like-minded parents who are passionate about providing their children with unique learning experiences.
These communities not only foster educational growth but also serve as a platform to connect with other parents, exchange ideas, and form a lasting relationship. The relationship may not extend beyond the years children spend at the academy, but it doesn’t make it any less valuable.
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Local Parent Communities
The daily school run can be a hectic affair for busy parents. A British study highlights the positive impacts generated by communities of parents who work together to organize school runs. Combining their efforts allows parents to reduce the school run dread. Indeed, picking up children from school can come with challenges, such as:
- Being late
- Being caught in bad weather
- Driving on busy roads
Reaching out to parents of your child’s friends can help arrange an effective school run schedule that decreases stress and hassle for all.
Friendly and Trustworthy Neighbors
Are there still good neighbors? The answer is yes, as long as you know where to look. Neighbors whose values and needs are aligned with yours can provide peace of mind when trying to manage your duty as a buddy mom or dad. A trusted neighbor can step in when you are stuck elsewhere to pick up your child from school or look after them until you're back from work. Neighborhood connections often grow into genuine friendships, supporting each other and building a strong community.
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Digital Influencers and Friends
Is an online friend a lesser friend? Social media platforms and parenting influencers have become a source of guidance and support for modern parents. Following relatable and authentic influencers and digital groups can help parents share their challenges and find support and advice.
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Building connections with other parents is vital for your well-being. Mom friends may never be as important in your life as a best friend, but they can offer the support, belonging, and understanding you need when navigating parenthood.
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